The Most Important Thing In Relationship

You ask anyone what the most important thing in relationship; the response will be trust. The truth of it is that you want to have trust in any relationship. Your trust is held more important than the love itself. I know you may think of it differently, but it is true. I say the most important thing in a relationship is communication. No relationship even begins without communication. It can be verbal or nonverbal but it is communication non the less.
There is a test I use to prove to people that love is not important. In fact it is the lest important thing when it comes to relationship. See we are all wanting to stay away from a place called unhappiness. Unhappiness is the disease we are trying to kill from our lives. The way we do this is to attack the symptoms that lead to love with a passion that overrides the fear.
I'll prove it by giving you a small test to see what leads you to love.
First I need you to pull out a piece of paper.  Next I will ask you question which allows you to choose which is more important to you. Remember you can only give from one of these choices nothing is equal one of them can only be your choice. Okay, write it choice down place to most important at the top and the least important on the bottom. I'll give you an example: what is more important Love or Communication? You say communication.
So, place communication above love. Next I ask, what is more important love or trust? If trust is more important place trust over love. Then test yourself to see which is more important trust or communication. Your answer is communication.
He is how your list should look:

• communication
• trust
• love

Okay now your have an idea of what I'm talk about, Let's get started. Which is more important love or communication? There is no wrong answer. Now which is more important love or trust? Okay which is more important trust or communication. Good, which is more important love or honesty? Well then, which is more important to you honesty or trust. Okay, which is more important honesty or communication? Interesting huh?
Okay, which is more important love or respect? It's getting tougher to answer some, huh. Okay, what is more important respect or honesty?  Now, which is more important respect or trust? Which is more important to you respect or communication?
By now, you are seeing Love is falling at the bottom of the list. This shows you that you need all these things before love. Oh, don't forget we are curing the symptoms of unhappiness. Each step is leading you to love. When you meet someone they have to meet the requirements listed there before you can start to say I Love You. I hope this will help understand a little more about love and how you choose who you will love.