Why Do We Cheat

I know every woman would love to know why men want to have multiple women. Basically you are asking why do men cheat. I am a man, and I have the secret to why men cheat. Do you really want to know why we cheat? Do you really want to know what makes a man cheat? I'll tell you what makes a man cheat. It's simple other women. You know when you as a woman is not doing the things you need to do to make him happy.

What I found is that when most start the process of cheating; it is not a conscious choice in the beginning. It is usually a matter of a slow and gradual process. It begins with having arguments in which all that needs to be said is not said. Think about some arguments you've  had in the past. I bet you'll  find that there are times that you making an argument when that person is no longer there. You do it in your mind, while you're driving your car, or sitting alone. You find yourself thinking about things you should have say to them which would have got your point across. Later on you try to bring the argument again just to say the things you wanted to say to get an understanding but It seems as though It is fallen on deaf ears.

When you are puzzle about how to get the person you love to understand you; sometimes you try to get outside help. You begin talk with others outside the relationship like friends, relatives, and even co-workers. They all try to help you by giving you the advice they would do themselves. Here my problem with that! I don't care whose giving you advise, They may say, "if I were in your shoes, I would do whatever". The truth is no one can be in another person shoes and not still be themselves. You know your situation better then they do. You are never going to tell much of the other person's side of the argument. You can't because you are not the other person and therefore you don't know what their interpretation of the argument was about.
I want you to remember that most affairs occurs at work. There are times when other people are going through similar situations. That person who chooses to talk with a co-worker about the things going on at home; usually finds a person dealing with something close to there own circumstances at home.

 Now this creates a position similar to two people meeting and getting to know someone for the first time. Do you see what I am getting at yet? These two people didn't start out with the intentions of cheating. They started out with the idea of getting help with the understanding of how to change the situations at home. They talk with the other person and then try to talk with the person at home. After a while of seeing words falling on deaf ears and continuing to talk the person at work, you find that you and the co-worker have similar beliefs about how things should be in love and relationship. All of a sudden, their eyes start to open. They think about the person at work more then the person at home. The person at home doesn't always know about the talks at work from you. You give up on trying to come to an understanding with them. She thinks she is just glad you stop bringing it up and it is over now we can move on to other more important things. The conversation has stop at home and more is going on at work.