Hhhhhmmm, I want to talk to you about finding the passion you been looking for. I know it seems like passion may be miles away, but passion could be right in your face. You missed it, huh. So many of you have been looking for passion in that thug. He is not about passion. He is about getting the job done. You want him because he could handle you. Now, you can't handle him. May be it is time to find some one you can get this grand passion you have been looking for.
Passion has many faces. It is something you must give in order to receive. I think of passion being like a flower blossom it will keep close up until it feels the warmth of the sun. We all have passions it takes the right person to bring it out of us. Passion comes when you learn how to be gentle with you touch.You take your time to caress the parts of you partner in every place. These touch is where the magic lives. Every woman needs you to look into her eyes as though you were looking at the thing you most desire. You will also need to learn the secret to a great kiss.
Kisses is the test of longevity of a relationship. I know most of us men have not yet learn how this works so I will try to give you what makes a great kiss. You can try this. You should gaze into her eyes and lean forward. This is your signal to her that you would like a kiss. When she leans in to kiss you you need to mimic how she is kissing you. If she is the type to kiss you like she is hungry give that same aggressive kiss. If she is someone who is a gentle kisser then kiss her slowly and tender. Remember this, no matter what you might believe a woman is attracted to herself. The more you put out to her things which are like herself the more you will get in return.
You must keep in mind that passion is not about sex. It is about creating a memory. It can lead to sex but sex should never be your goal. What we are doing is make the type of memory which can surpass the relationship. What mean by this is that if you where married to her and pass away. That passion could hold her back from wanting to be with another man for quite some time. She will back away from any new suitors if he can not be as passionate as you were.
Friday, March 30, 2012
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Men VS Women
Hello readers! I got to get a lot off my chest. Why is it that we fell into the lies they tell us? They tell us that men and women are as different as the sex organs. They have very different ways to get to the same goals, and because we have to label everything we think it is different. It seems different but the goals we are trying to reach is quite the same. Lets take one of the thing we hate most cheating. When a man is the outside lover; he keeps his mouth shut for the fear of no longer getting what he wants from the woman in a relationship already. When a woman is the outside lover; she will want to tell the other woman in hope to keep getting what she wants. Notice that is the same goal to keep the lover who has someone.
There was a friend of mine who suggested that all a man needed to have a sexual orgasm is a little friction. I had to stop and think at that moment because I have seen the movies. I told her you must have missed the fact that women need the same things to achieve the same affect an orgasm. With that in mind, Our sexual organs maybe design differently they actually work the same way. A mans sexual organ stiffens from blood flow causing it to become erect. A woman, on the other, has the same engorging of blood flow though her nearly penis shape clitoris does not protrude from her vagina cavity. This is why most women talk about a jumping sensation which they feel when they become aroused.
We men like to gossip just as much as the women does. We have the desire of being married just as much as women. We also put women through test to see if she is a woman worthy of our cherish. If there is one difference between women and men it is this, A woman does not think of sex as much as a man unless she is in love with a particular man.
There was a friend of mine who suggested that all a man needed to have a sexual orgasm is a little friction. I had to stop and think at that moment because I have seen the movies. I told her you must have missed the fact that women need the same things to achieve the same affect an orgasm. With that in mind, Our sexual organs maybe design differently they actually work the same way. A mans sexual organ stiffens from blood flow causing it to become erect. A woman, on the other, has the same engorging of blood flow though her nearly penis shape clitoris does not protrude from her vagina cavity. This is why most women talk about a jumping sensation which they feel when they become aroused.
We men like to gossip just as much as the women does. We have the desire of being married just as much as women. We also put women through test to see if she is a woman worthy of our cherish. If there is one difference between women and men it is this, A woman does not think of sex as much as a man unless she is in love with a particular man.
Monday, March 12, 2012
The News vs thinking
I woke up this morning feeling pretty good about life. Until I started watching the News! I don't know about you guys but it is one of those things as a kids I did like to do. Now that I am a man, I feel it is something I am compelled to do. Maybe this is something that is written in our DNA? Yet I'm getting so tired of the media trying to scare me with doom and gloom one day then try to sell me on the idea they have an answer another day. I don't know if any of you have notice this but this is the trend I keep noticing. Today is no different. I wonder who comes up with these topics. I also wonder why is it that is on other news shows. Hell, how is it on NBC stations today then on ABC stations tomorrow? I don't have to give you a specific topic because you know what I am talking about. Whether it is about fall fashion to politics, News shows want to somehow control your thinking.
Your thinking may not be your own at times. How many times have you watch something on television only repeat what you heard someone say on the News? You pretend like you have first hand knowledge. Secretly you know it came from the news show you were watching that morning. By round of applause, let me know you been there. Oh, I know some of you do say where you got the information. You know it just goes over better when you seem to have the inside scoop.
I am just getting a little upset about the fact that how some people watch this mess without an analysis eyes. They believe without really thinking things through. Give you an example. Awhile back, they reported Will and Jada Smith were getting a divorce. They even showed you pictures of Will with his son alone and Jada with her daughter alone at different functions. These pictures was enough to say they were getting a divorce, talking about putting the cart before the horse. I remember thinking if I were them and wanted to keep people want to talk about me this would actually cause some director to want to use this little momentum to make some money with me in a movie. I would take a little time to say the rumors are false. See, Will hasn't made a movies in a while so many are wondering what he has been doing Since the movie Seven Pounds. I notice on the news they never responded when they did Will and Jada claimed it was all false.
Okay once again by applause, who thinks that they are looking for some dirt on two successful BLACK PEOPLE that are adding to their family's success with the success of their kids? I'll tell you, I loved the movie the Karate kid but the latest version did the original justice. Black people need to be aware of what is going on in the United States and the world. We just need to take the time out to question it.
Your thinking may not be your own at times. How many times have you watch something on television only repeat what you heard someone say on the News? You pretend like you have first hand knowledge. Secretly you know it came from the news show you were watching that morning. By round of applause, let me know you been there. Oh, I know some of you do say where you got the information. You know it just goes over better when you seem to have the inside scoop.
I am just getting a little upset about the fact that how some people watch this mess without an analysis eyes. They believe without really thinking things through. Give you an example. Awhile back, they reported Will and Jada Smith were getting a divorce. They even showed you pictures of Will with his son alone and Jada with her daughter alone at different functions. These pictures was enough to say they were getting a divorce, talking about putting the cart before the horse. I remember thinking if I were them and wanted to keep people want to talk about me this would actually cause some director to want to use this little momentum to make some money with me in a movie. I would take a little time to say the rumors are false. See, Will hasn't made a movies in a while so many are wondering what he has been doing Since the movie Seven Pounds. I notice on the news they never responded when they did Will and Jada claimed it was all false.
Okay once again by applause, who thinks that they are looking for some dirt on two successful BLACK PEOPLE that are adding to their family's success with the success of their kids? I'll tell you, I loved the movie the Karate kid but the latest version did the original justice. Black people need to be aware of what is going on in the United States and the world. We just need to take the time out to question it.
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
Awaken the Child
Where should I start? I guess it started for me a the age of five. I began to notice things I don't any five year old kid should have notice. It was at this age I manage to learn about being an adult long before I got here. My eyes began there search for truth one summer night when the man in the house told me he was not my father. That is a hard thing to hear at that age. My mother who was there at the time hit him and told him not to tell me things like that. Little did I know, those simple acts would start a chain reaction of events which would change me forever. There were times when my mother own sisters and brothers would make reference to the same thing. They would things like, "I don't know why she say he is not your daddy when you look just like him". After hearing those words, I would go to her each time to ask her and her response would be, " boy you know that is your daddy". Her words never really settled me. It just seemed as though she was tricking me into believing what she needed me to think.
I was one of the kids who was raise by the television. I would watch lots of Sesame street and Electric company. I watched just about anything you could find on public access television. I guess my mother was shocked because I was learning without the aid of her or a teacher. She would began showing me off by asking me about things I learned when people would say how big I have grown. Little did she know I had and goal in mind. I figure I was not smart enough to pick up on the truth that she was hiding from me.
I know you thinking how is it a young boy at that age could even be thinking about such things. It was because of how often the mixed messages came at me. On the one hand there is your mother telling you a man is your daddy and on the hand you have family members say it has told them the opposite, this would make you start to wondering too. I observed everything watching for signs. Signs which would tell me the truth of is he my father or not.
I began to notice the way he would treat my younger sister over me. She could do no wrong in his eyes. If anything happen I got the blame for it. I was treated harsher then she. Now I know you could have attribute this to the fact that she was a girl and I was a boy as for the reason. Yet as time went on so did the abuse and so did the unfair treatment. At the age of 15, I was coming home one night when I notice that a cat was poise on my back porch. It was a stray cat looking for a meal. It lunge toward the outer edge of the trash can and knock it over. I laugh at it but my laughter quickly change. I know if the trash was found the next day knocked over I would get a beating I did not want. I ran the cat away and began cleaning up the mess left behind. Once I was done I went into the house and grab some bleach and pour it over the trash. The man of the house was sure that the bleach would deter the animals from knocking the trash over. I on the other hand thought how stupid and wasteful it was. I reasoned that if they were using dogs to find drugs then a dog would know what food was good to eat. It did not make a matter the next morning it was found knocked over. I was woke up with my daddy enraged over the fact the trash was knocked over. The must have returned and knock it over again even after doing what he had said to do. I guess I was right. It was five in the morning. I was barely awake and trying to get dressed to go take care of the mess. He was screaming as though this trash was the end of the world. He began make himself madder and madder. He came up to me and swung to hit me. I had paid for karate classes during the summer; so it was on reaction that I block the slap which was coming. He ran to the living room and got his gun from underneath the couch cushion. He first ran up and place it up to my face and began to threaten me. I know the question on you mind. Where was your mother? She was there. She never said anything about the gun being pointed at me at all. He let me up the go get the trash up from the yard. Once I got to the porch I jump off. I felt a slight bump on my head as I started to drop to the ground. I heard my mother yelling, " don't hit boy with that gun'.
TO BE CONTINUED...........
I was one of the kids who was raise by the television. I would watch lots of Sesame street and Electric company. I watched just about anything you could find on public access television. I guess my mother was shocked because I was learning without the aid of her or a teacher. She would began showing me off by asking me about things I learned when people would say how big I have grown. Little did she know I had and goal in mind. I figure I was not smart enough to pick up on the truth that she was hiding from me.
I know you thinking how is it a young boy at that age could even be thinking about such things. It was because of how often the mixed messages came at me. On the one hand there is your mother telling you a man is your daddy and on the hand you have family members say it has told them the opposite, this would make you start to wondering too. I observed everything watching for signs. Signs which would tell me the truth of is he my father or not.
I began to notice the way he would treat my younger sister over me. She could do no wrong in his eyes. If anything happen I got the blame for it. I was treated harsher then she. Now I know you could have attribute this to the fact that she was a girl and I was a boy as for the reason. Yet as time went on so did the abuse and so did the unfair treatment. At the age of 15, I was coming home one night when I notice that a cat was poise on my back porch. It was a stray cat looking for a meal. It lunge toward the outer edge of the trash can and knock it over. I laugh at it but my laughter quickly change. I know if the trash was found the next day knocked over I would get a beating I did not want. I ran the cat away and began cleaning up the mess left behind. Once I was done I went into the house and grab some bleach and pour it over the trash. The man of the house was sure that the bleach would deter the animals from knocking the trash over. I on the other hand thought how stupid and wasteful it was. I reasoned that if they were using dogs to find drugs then a dog would know what food was good to eat. It did not make a matter the next morning it was found knocked over. I was woke up with my daddy enraged over the fact the trash was knocked over. The must have returned and knock it over again even after doing what he had said to do. I guess I was right. It was five in the morning. I was barely awake and trying to get dressed to go take care of the mess. He was screaming as though this trash was the end of the world. He began make himself madder and madder. He came up to me and swung to hit me. I had paid for karate classes during the summer; so it was on reaction that I block the slap which was coming. He ran to the living room and got his gun from underneath the couch cushion. He first ran up and place it up to my face and began to threaten me. I know the question on you mind. Where was your mother? She was there. She never said anything about the gun being pointed at me at all. He let me up the go get the trash up from the yard. Once I got to the porch I jump off. I felt a slight bump on my head as I started to drop to the ground. I heard my mother yelling, " don't hit boy with that gun'.
TO BE CONTINUED...........
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