Giving Up the Nooky On The First Date

I was asked a question this morning. Should a woman give up the nookie on the first date? The simple answer to the question is No. With all due respect to men who disagree, I say no. It is not like I don't like to hear the word yes. It just happens to be one of the test we men use to see if it would be easy for another man to get the answer "Yes" from that woman. I know there are many people out here looking for love. I also know that all of the women who give up the nooky on the first date think they have found a connection with the men they give it up to. Many women who give up the nooky on the first date believe she has found the one. It isn't until that man begins to act as though she doesn't exist she thinks that he does not feel the same. He doesn't call your after that. You get confused. A woman really wants to know what she could have done to run him away.
 Faith has a way of bringing you together again. Those of you who have been through it know where I am going with everything. You happen to be out looking good, you are sitting with your girl friends, and he shows up. He comes in sees you trying to pretend he don't see you. He is thinking about that night ladies while he over there with his boys. Don't think he isn't. After a while he will build up the courage to come over and talk to you.  When he does ladies I say let him talk just to get it off his chest then kick him to the curve. I don't want you to listen to another word after you do. That means if he calls you after that night trying to convince you even more block his number. Don't listen to another word because he will do it again. He will get the nooky and disappear again this time never coming your way.
It is not like there aren't men out here who do not believe in love at first site. We men have been taught that if a woman gives it up on the first date she is easy or think how many man have she given it to that easy. Many of us think this is true. I know ladies we men seem to be small minded in our pursuit of happiness, yet we have to try to figure out this thing call love also.This test though unfair is just one of the ways we use to root out woman who may be only about sex.
Just think about this, a woman is looking for a man that is right for her. The same goes for a man. We all want some one who wants us for us. We want someone we can trust. See above all thing we want from the person we give our hearts to we to want trust them. Trust is the key component to making love work. Just above trust is communication without it how could we meet or get to know one another.
When it comes to a woman who would give up the nooky on the first date; she feels she has found love at first sight. Yes sir men who love at first site does exist. The reason why it gets crushed is he thinks because you gave him the nooky that first night; you would give it to the next man the same way. Only one thing, that man won't be him. I have passed up a lot of chances to get out of the dating screen because I didn't recognize it for what it is. It is a woman who thought she and I believe in many of the same things. It cause the woman to see me as the future man for her. So she decide to allow me all of her hoping I felt what she was feeling.
I have not forgotten about the women who out there and horny.
The next time you meet someone who you seem to be vibing with you might want to take a second thought. You can enjoy his company so much until you think you might have known him for years. he may feel the same way you do. It is that feeling which allow you to come together and share your sexuality with one another. You can have comfort in knowing he will not call you. You now know the reason.He connected with you. He has a conflicting belief which stop him from going any further. I is not his fault he was taught this. You should understand that the more we believe in what we are taught the harder it is to stop doing it.

Military Silence

I don't know if you have ever found yourself in a situation where you wanted to know what might be going on in your relationship. You are confused about the fidelity of the person you are with. I know it may seem the best things to do is to lurk around looking for clues. You might sit down with a friend and tell her about the things your significant other is doing and see if that friend comes up with the same conclusion. While all this might sound like good idea, they are the very essence of self destruction. Think carefully, what it you get caught sneaking through you mates belongs? You could lose that person's trust. When talking with a friend, are you the kind who is willing to speak of everything that happened? Thing you said and done also not just what the other person has done. If not, you have giving only half the story and that friend can only give you a mirror image of what you believe yourself. What if your friend is interested in your mate as well. Your friend may use you to destroy your relationship so that their new relationship with your mate can start.
  I believe in something called military silence. People with secrets to hide can not hide them forever. We all have to share with someone. The answers you are seeking will come with patients. Military silence is about shutting your mouth and opening your eyes to what is going on around you.
Actions speaks louder then words!
Have you ever paid attention to the look on someone's face when they smell a bad odor? They have an expression which seem to point out their nose has caught a whiff of something they don't like. The tale tell signs are there in front of you if you learn to pay attention. If you can learn to use patients and watch your mates behavior you can eventually get the truth. Never change your behavior towards that person. That means if you bring them a plate when food is done; keep doing it. You must be all you were before you started to have the suspicions. You must not talk with anyone about what is you are thinking. It might get back to them. Above all you must say little and watch the behavior more. Their change in routines can be cause by life changes and your fears will be put to rest. Whatever may happen, you will not have let yourself be change by it. Your mind will be clear of any guilt because you are doing all you are suppose to do. remember most of the time your actions could be the cause of their reactions.  All those who are cheating will always be faced with a choice. It makes it hard for them to keep cheating when you are more then that which is offered outside.