Giving Up the Nooky On The First Date

I was asked a question this morning. Should a woman give up the nookie on the first date? The simple answer to the question is No. With all due respect to men who disagree, I say no. It is not like I don't like to hear the word yes. It just happens to be one of the test we men use to see if it would be easy for another man to get the answer "Yes" from that woman. I know there are many people out here looking for love. I also know that all of the women who give up the nooky on the first date think they have found a connection with the men they give it up to. Many women who give up the nooky on the first date believe she has found the one. It isn't until that man begins to act as though she doesn't exist she thinks that he does not feel the same. He doesn't call your after that. You get confused. A woman really wants to know what she could have done to run him away.
 Faith has a way of bringing you together again. Those of you who have been through it know where I am going with everything. You happen to be out looking good, you are sitting with your girl friends, and he shows up. He comes in sees you trying to pretend he don't see you. He is thinking about that night ladies while he over there with his boys. Don't think he isn't. After a while he will build up the courage to come over and talk to you.  When he does ladies I say let him talk just to get it off his chest then kick him to the curve. I don't want you to listen to another word after you do. That means if he calls you after that night trying to convince you even more block his number. Don't listen to another word because he will do it again. He will get the nooky and disappear again this time never coming your way.
It is not like there aren't men out here who do not believe in love at first site. We men have been taught that if a woman gives it up on the first date she is easy or think how many man have she given it to that easy. Many of us think this is true. I know ladies we men seem to be small minded in our pursuit of happiness, yet we have to try to figure out this thing call love also.This test though unfair is just one of the ways we use to root out woman who may be only about sex.
Just think about this, a woman is looking for a man that is right for her. The same goes for a man. We all want some one who wants us for us. We want someone we can trust. See above all thing we want from the person we give our hearts to we to want trust them. Trust is the key component to making love work. Just above trust is communication without it how could we meet or get to know one another.
When it comes to a woman who would give up the nooky on the first date; she feels she has found love at first sight. Yes sir men who love at first site does exist. The reason why it gets crushed is he thinks because you gave him the nooky that first night; you would give it to the next man the same way. Only one thing, that man won't be him. I have passed up a lot of chances to get out of the dating screen because I didn't recognize it for what it is. It is a woman who thought she and I believe in many of the same things. It cause the woman to see me as the future man for her. So she decide to allow me all of her hoping I felt what she was feeling.
I have not forgotten about the women who out there and horny.
The next time you meet someone who you seem to be vibing with you might want to take a second thought. You can enjoy his company so much until you think you might have known him for years. he may feel the same way you do. It is that feeling which allow you to come together and share your sexuality with one another. You can have comfort in knowing he will not call you. You now know the reason.He connected with you. He has a conflicting belief which stop him from going any further. I is not his fault he was taught this. You should understand that the more we believe in what we are taught the harder it is to stop doing it.