Slaying the Man Beast

I was puzzle the other day about what to write. I shared it with a friend of mine she said why don't you write about it. Somebody sold you an idea that a man is a confuse beast hard to understand. It is not true. the real truth is we all hide who we are. We been taught to always put our best face forward. In this case we put on the mask we need to impress others until we are ready to show you who we are. Men are not as hard to figure out as you might think.
 You might be thinking all men want is one thing, sex. What if I told you that sex is a man's way of testing you?  He is trying to see how easy it would be for him. He does this to gauge how easy it will be for another man who would challenge your love for him. You may have notice that he is thinking ahead of time about how secure the relationship will be. It is for this reason he will attempt to have sex with you as soon as you will have him. Don't get me wrong there are men out here who are so afraid of being committed that all he want is sex. Let just set those boys walking around in men's body aside.
Would it surprise you to know that men want the same things you do? It is just we go about achieving it that is different. For example, We want to get married. We love nice things, and We also  want to have kids. If you truly think it is hard to understand man I would suggest that you put down the books, stop watching the dramas on T.V. and movies that is not the real world. I find that we do began to act those things out in the real world. It is a fantasy which is use for escape. I am not saying you should not watch these things. I do believe you should take more stock in watching what is actually happening in your life.
Men like women are attracted to different things about women. Yet we seem to all like a butt over all. I am not saying it is the only thing so calm down. I know they tell you as a woman to harness your best feature. The funny thing is that your best feature may not be why a man has chose you.
You must learn to be yourself in all you do. what I mean by this is if make up gives you the feeling of being sexy and make you happy with yourself then wear it with pride. I must tell you that it does not make you or break you. It is only the outward opinions of others you do this for. If you really think about it, you will understand that you have only heard a few peoples thoughts on what you look like without makeup so you assume what others say. The man who chooses to be with you will see you with it and without it.