I know I am about to step on a lot of toes with this one. I know for years I thought the same as many of you. You know it feels good to know the person you care about loves you. I decided one day to ask how do I know that person loves me. It was strange when I began to answer the question. I notice the things I did not pay attention to before hand which might make you began to take a step back from yourself and really think about the person you love. Also this may then make you take stock of what you have instead of listening to other people's free advice.
There are always people offering free advice. I never really stopped to ask myself why. I have even done this myself and as you can see, I am still doing so today. Yet, I understand that we have been clouded with gurus who claim to have the answers. I don't claim to have the answer for you. I do think, on the other hand, that you are the best person to see your situation. I may have the question which will lead you to find you own answers for you situation. For example If someone comes to you and tells you that the person you are with was with someone else last night, What would your reaction be? Would you question the person you are with over their whereabouts? Would you assume that person who told you this wanted the person you are with? Would you ignore what they say? It is easy for me to say; I would leave it all alone and be patients. I ask you are giving off a vibe of mistrust or jealousy? See, when we get intel from another person who maybe friend or relative, do you ever question their motive or do you naturally assume they are out for your well being? If I thought that the person had a motive for what was said I would ask what it might be. I also know once the thoughts of another is implanted that it will be in the back of my mind so patients is the best move in this case. I carefully monitor myself to make sure I am not letting myself change towards that person because of what has been said. Thought becomes actions. Your action because of what someone has told you can and will manifest itself in your action. Remember no one can hide the truth forever. It is your job to keep your best foot forward as to not be used as the villain in this case. I got an idea you might be saying I don't want to be nobody's fool. That not what you are doing. You are making sure of two things. One: you are not giving off a vibe which pushing them away. Two: you know you have done all the right things so there is no doubt left that if it comes to fruition you can close that door and never look back.
Through the years I have found that the way I known if the person ,I love, loves me is through all there actions. How they treat me is a way of judging whether that person truly wants my company. Women I know it sounds good to think like a man then act like a lady. If you truly think like a man you will be acting like a man soon. I believe that thought are actions. if you think on something long enough you will began to act it out. You do the math!
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