Three Times A Lady

I think it is about time I begin telling you somethings which men don't know or won't tell. I am gonna tell you guys a secret which will shock, amaze, or even make you angry. Some of us know the truth of this but won't discuss it with those who don't know. Since I have been on both sides of this thing I call the "Three time a lady", I am going to expose it for what it is. Most woman has had this going on for years without letting all the men in there life know. Some men know this way of choosing a mate yet they don't care enough to share with the other men around them. Well today I'm gonna burst this code of silence. 

We are all looking for love. We look first at our parents way of loving one another. There is a definite connection to how they treated one another to how you might treat your mate, friend, lover, boo, or whatever name you choose to call them. We also use relationships we have had in past. There is a funny thing I have learn when it comes to being a man. Women believe that what they do is alright. It is okay for a woman to dish out insults to a man. It is on the other hand a wrong thing for a man to insult a woman. I have  seen it more often then not.

A man just like a woman goes in search of a mate someone to share his life. He is a dumb animal in this pursuit at times. It is only because his hormones get in his way. Women will date and sex is farthest from your mind until you feel you can trust the man. Men may try this means of meeting miss right but in a heated moment feel compelled to have sex. If you ask one of these men, why he did it? He would probably say he needs to test drive the car before he bought it. I know this sounds horrible but think of the magazine pages with a beautiful woman drape across an expensive car. It's a wonder why he would start associating cars and having sex with women the way he does. Yet many men in the younger stages of life loves to keep more then one women around for the purpose of not just sewing his oats but to have a choice to start to understand the type of woman which is right for him. I know some treat it like a drug and they have a hard time giving up the life ever once they are married.

There are many women who are not much different from the men I just spoke of. You seem to feel you can't find all you need in one man. So you use different men for different reason. You have a man who can fix everything. You have a man who will help you pay your bills. You even have a man you will call to service your sexual needs. Don't get upset if your not one of women I speak about in your case your moral compass stops you from being this woman. You must admit that you may know one of these women. She may be called other names by you though. She is just doing what works for her to achieve the things she wants in life. So I say celebrate her for not going into the welfare mode many use to get by.