We all love. We love in different ways. I know we never seem to take enough time to get to know one another's ways. I don't know about you, I seem to notice that there is always a monumental shift in people after sex. There are many who become possessive, others who become jealous, and still there are people who decide to be controlling.
Sex is the least talk about subject, but it is the most craved action in the United States.The question is why? What makes us desire sex? Is It television? I think we all crave sex in our own way. Men and women desire sex. Women desire a man who know what he is doing without being told what to do. Men crave the exact same thing. We all don't want to have to teach someone what to do. We want someone who is fulfilling our desires without a word from us.
I was 9 years old and curious about the opposite sex. It may sound strange; yet I know we have all thought about it even if we never indulged in sex like I did at that age. I can remember being at that age paying a girl a dollar just to take a look at her genital area. You can say I was quite curious about why they look differently. As time went on, I wanted to know all the things I needed know; if I ever wanted to get married. See me, It was a essential to know so that If I ever got married, I would never have to worry about the woman in my life leaving me because she was never satisfied sexually. I had seen these thing happening all to often.
One thing that I knew might seen to be bad is the fact that in order to learn the things I needed to know is that I would have to use women to achieve my goal and I did. Sorry ladies, I know it was a terrible thing to do but it was a must. I began my learning process at the age of 15. The time when relationships last all of 3 months at best. You might be able to remember the junior high years. It was a hard road for me.
I would start my journey with meeting someone who was interested in me whom I only talk to over phone. Lol, The phone became an interesting device to use to my advantage. I use to think I was ugly believe it or not. I thought that over the phone; I could be ever thing a woman could want. It was hard for a woman to let you go when she was already in love with who you are. I started learning that relationship follow a pattern. That pattern went we meet, we get to know one another, we fall in love, we look for fault, we destroy the relationship, and when the relationship is over we look at the good time. Many of us began to look at our past as to why we broke up later. That is why we tend to keep going back into a relationship that we have been in before. Ever wonder why two people would break up only to get back together? It is simple. They keep thinking they made mistakes they can change. If you put all of your heart in something you never have to look back. This is the real problem. Now let me get back on track.
I began by going after women who were married. They won't clown on you because they had men, at least I thought. What I found out is that women who have lost the love for the men they are with; can act more jealous then women without a man at times. They would treat you like the man they were with at home.
Now let's get to the meat and potatoes of the sex thing.
I use to hear that man went down on women to secure his place in her life. I thought there was a better way.
I thought that a man who goes to sleep after sex was a tired old man. I found out there are many that were younger then thirty. I believe that every man who had sex with a woman should put her to sleep. After he was done then he should go cook something to help her get her strength back. In order to achieve this we have to start with the basic. Every man knows where to put it but he should know how to move it.
Every woman might agree that some men act as though they have never had a woman. You know the ones. They rush into every thing like it is a race to get an orgasm. He usually wins that race in five or ten minutes. Then he rolls over and get some sleep or ask how was it. Women the first thing I know is it took a lot of trust from you to get to the point of having you sexually. That trust took time to build, so take your time don't rush.
Okay men, once you enter her it is time to pay attention to her. Believe it or not, every woman wants to succeed at getting her orgasm. Although at time you are just trying to please your man's sexual appetite. So she will not talk but she will give you clues to what feels good and what doesn't. So I can't stress this too much, look into her eyes and watch her expressions. She will tell you everything you need to know with her eyes and body language. This way you will never again have use those dumb words,"was it good for you". I have too much to say on this subject so let me leave it for now and I will continue this later...
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